生活中
我们渴望被人欣赏
却往往忽略了欣赏别人
更多时候
我们善于发现
别人的缺点
乐于放大
自己的优点
甚至在别人的不幸中
找到自己的庆幸
然而欣赏是相互的
要想被人欣赏
就得先去欣赏别人
只有欣赏别人
才会被人欣赏
人生路上需要用
真诚的心灵去欣赏
而不是用好奇的眼光去打量
---加措活佛
Most of us long to be admired, yet often neglect to appreciateothers. More often, we can easily point out others’ faults while alsomagnifying our own good points. Sometimes we even feel happy when othersencounter misfortune. However, appreciation should be mutual; if we want othersto appreciate us, we must do the same. In fact, it is only when we appreciateothers that we can in turn be appreciated. In life we should aim to appreciateothers with a sincere heart and mind, and not to simply size others up withcurious eyes.
Jia Cuo Rinpoche
生活中
我们渴望被人欣赏
却往往忽略了欣赏别人
更多时候
我们善于发现
别人的缺点
乐于放大
自己的优点
甚至在别人的不幸中
找到自己的庆幸
然而欣赏是相互的
要想被人欣赏
就得先去欣赏别人
只有欣赏别人
才会被人欣赏
人生路上需要用
真诚的心灵去欣赏
而不是用好奇的眼光去打量
---加措活佛
Most of us long to be admired, yet often neglect to appreciateothers. More often, we can easily point out others’ faults while alsomagnifying our own good points. Sometimes we even feel happy when othersencounter misfortune. However, appreciation should be mutual; if we want othersto appreciate us, we must do the same. In fact, it is only when we appreciateothers that we can in turn be appreciated. In life we should aim to appreciateothers with a sincere heart and mind, and not to simply size others up withcurious eyes.
Jia Cuo Rinpoche