爱是一条双行道LoveIsATwo-WayStreet
Afathersatathisdeskporingoverhismonthlybillswhenhisyoungsonrushedinandannounced,
"Dad,becausethisisyourbirthdayandyou're55yearsold,I’mgoingtogiveyou55kisses,oneforeachyear!"Whentheboystartedmakinggoodonhisword,thefatherexclaimed,"Oh,Andrew,don'tdoitnow,I’mtoobusy!"
Theyoungsterimmediatelyfellsilentastearswelledupinhisbigblueeyes.Apologicallythefathersaid,"Youcanfinishlater."
Theboysaidnothingbutquietlywalkedaway,disappointmentwrittenoverhisface.Thateveningthefathersaid,"Comeandfinishthekissesnow,Andrew!"Buttheboydidn‘trespond.
Unfortunately,afewdayslaterafterthisincident,theboyhadanaccidentandwasdrowned.Hisheartbrokenfatherwrote……
"IfonlyIcouldtellhimhowmuchIregretmythoughtlesswords,andcouldbeassuredthatheknowshowmuchmyheartisaching."
…Loveisatwo-waystreet.Anylovingactmustbewarmlyacceptedoritwillbetakenasrejectionandcanleaveascar.Ifwearetoobusytogiveandreceivelove,wearetoobusy!Nothingismoreimportantthanrespondingwithlovetothecryforlovefromthosewhoarenearandprecioustous.Because……theremaybenochanceatallasinthecaseofthelittleboy……
喜欢和爱的差别
Infrontofthepersonyoulove,youheartbeatsfaster.
Youcannotlookstraightintotheeyesoftheoneyoulove.
Butyoucanalwayssmileintotheeyesoftheoneyoulike.
Whentheoneyouloveiscrying,youcrywithhim.Butwhentheoneyoulikeiscrying,youendupcomforting.
Thefeelingoflovestartsfromtheeyes,butthefeelingoflikestartsfromtheear.
Soifyoustoplikingapersonyouusedtolike,allyouneedtodoiscoveryouears.
Butifyoutrytocloseyoureyes,loveturnsintoadropoftearandremindsinyourheartforever……
谈谈幸福的本质
IliveinHollywood.Youmaythinkpeopleinsucha
glamorous,fun-filledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso,youhavesomemistakenideasaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Manyintelligentpeoplestillequatehappinesswithfun.Thetruthisthatfunandhappinesshavelittleornothingincommon.Funiswhatweexperienceduringanact.Happinessiswhatweexperienceafteranact.Itisadeeper,moreabidingemotion.
Goingtoanamusementparkorballgame,watchingamovieortelevision,arefunactivitiesthathelpusrelax,temporarilyforgetourproblemsandmaybeevenlaugh.Buttheydonotbringhappiness,becausetheirpositiveeffectsendwhenthefunends.
IhaveoftenthoughtthatifHollywoodstarshavearoletoplay,itistoteachusthathappinesshasnothingtodowithfun.Theserich,beautifulindividualshaveconstantaccesstoglamorousparties,fancycars,expensivehomes,everythingthatspells"happiness".
glamorous,fun-filledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso,youhavesomemistakenideasaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Manyintelligentpeoplestillequatehappinesswithfun.Thetruthisthatfunandhappinesshavelittleornothingincommon.Funiswhatweexperienceduringanact.Happinessiswhatweexperienceafteranact.Itisadeeper,moreabidingemotion.
Goingtoanamusementparkorballgame,watchingamovieortelevision,arefunactivitiesthathelpusrelax,temporarilyforgetourproblemsandmaybeevenlaugh.Buttheydonotbringhappiness,becausetheirpositiveeffectsendwhenthefunends.
IhaveoftenthoughtthatifHollywoodstarshavearoletoplay,itistoteachusthathappinesshasnothingtodowithfun.Theserich,beautifulindividualshaveconstantaccesstoglamorousparties,fancycars,expensivehomes,everythingthatspells"happiness".
Butinmemoiraftermemoir,celebritiesrevealtheunhappinesshiddenbeneathalltheirfun:depression,alcoholism,drugaddiction,brokenmarriages,troubledchildren,profoundloneliness.
Thewaypeopleclingtothebeliefthatafun-filled,pain-free
their
Iffunlifechancesandequatesofhappinessactuallyrealwithdiminisheshappiness.everareattainingequatedpleasure
happiness,thenpainmustbeequatedwithunhappiness.But,infact,theoppositeistrue:Moretimesthannot,thingsthatleadtohappinessinvolvesomepain.
Asaresult,manypeopleavoidtheveryendeavorsthatarethesourceoftruehappiness.Theyfearthepaininevitablybroughtbysuchthingsasmarriage,raisingchildren,professionalachievement,religiouscommitment,
improvement.civicorcharitablework,andself-
世界上最遥远的距离
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotbetweenlifeanddeath
不是生与死
ButwhenIstandinfrontofyou
而是我就站在你面前
Yetyoudon'tknowthatIloveyou
你却不知道我爱你
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
IsnotwhenIstandinfrontofyou
不是我就站在你面前
Yetyoucan'tseemylove
你却不知道我爱你
Butwhenundoubtedlyknowingthelovefromboth而是明明知道彼此相爱
Yetcannotbetogether
却不能在一起
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotbeingapartwhilebeinginlove不是明明知道彼此相爱却不能在一起
Butwhenpainlycannotresisttheyearning
而是明明无法抵挡这股思念
Yetpretendingyouhaveneverbeeninmyheart却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotwhenpainlycannotresisttheyearning不是明明无法抵挡这股思念
yetpretendingyouhaveneverbeeninmyheart却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
butusingone'sindifferentheart
而是用自己冷漠的心对爱你的人
Todiganuncrossableriver
掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠
Fortheonewholovesyou
婚姻是什么样子的
Ithinkthatweshouldallhavetwolives.Onetolivetomakemistakesandthenonetocomebackanddoitagain.Youknowsoyoudon'tmakemistakes.Imeanbecauseparentswillnottellyouthings－nobodyevertellsyou.Parentsdon'twanttositdownandreally
1)garbandsay:wellnowthisiswhatthisisaboutandthisiswhywearedoingthisandthis－Noit'sabigsecret!
WhenIgotmarriedIsaidtomyfather,“I'mgoingtogetmarried,canyouhelpme?”Hesaidno.Iwenttomymother,Isaid“I’mgoingtogetmarried,Ma,tellmesomethingaboutit.”Shesaid,“Oh,that'swonderful.YourfatherandIhaveneverargued,andhe'sjustbeenwonderfulallthroughlife.”Whichisalie!Lie!Iheardhiminthere,and,“I'llnowtell
youanotherthingI'lltakeyourarmand2)ripitoffandrararara……”
Andnowinmymarriage,mywifeandIloveeachotherbutIwilltellyou3)inaminutewe'vehadsomearguments!ImeanI'venever4)punchedherandshe'sneverpunchedmebutwe'vehadsomearguments,I'vecalledhersomenamesthatIwasproudIeventhoughtof.Andmywifehas5)runsomeofonmethatI'vewrittendown,yeah,butnobodywilltellyouthat.Theonlypersonwhoevermadeanattemptwasapriest.Thinkaboutthat.Apriest!Said,“I'lltellyouaboutit,”Ibegyourpardon.
Marriage,youcan'tbeatit.Thefirstdaywegotmarried,bothofusscaredandeverything,therewegotmarriedandwewenttoourhotelroomforourhoneymoonandjuststaredateachother－justsatthereontheedgeofthebedwithourclothesonlookingateachother.Thenfinallywegotinthecarandwenttothe
6)drive-inandthenweknewwhattodo.
我们正在学习什么？
Ilearnedtoalughinsidemytears,
Ilearnedtobehumaninmymostwretchedyears……IlearnedtofeelwhenIwasn'tbeingtouched,IlearnedtogivewhenIdidn'thavemuch.
IlearnedtobewarmwhenIwascold……
Livingrealhumbly,Iearingtobebold.
IlearnedtolivewhenIthoughtitbettertodie……
IlearnedtolaughwhenallIcoulddowascry.Ilearnedfrombelowwhatit'slikeupabove……WhileIwashated,Ilearnedhowtolove……
ItwasonthemovethatIlearnedhowtorest,
Whileatmyworst,Ilearnedmybest.
IlearnedaboutGod,whenitseemedIwasdamned……ItiswhenIwaslostthatIlearnedthatIam.IlearnedtoberichwhenIhadnomoney……Thesetingsseemsoserious,buthey……
Isn'tlifefunny!?
————————————————————————————————————
在泪水中我学会了欢笑
在最悲惨的岁月里，我学会了有血有肉
当没有什么值得感动的时候，我学会了去感受
当并不富足时，我学会了给予
当寒冷的时候，我学会了怎样得到温暖
在真正卑微地活着，我学会了无畏
当生不如死的时候，我学会了生存
当唯一能做的事就是哭泣时，我会了欢笑当一切都高高在上时，我学会了向卑微学习当我被憎恶时，我学会怎样去爱
在颠沛流离时，我学会怎样放松
当处于最糟糕的境况时，我学会了憧憬最美好的事物当似乎就要完蛋的时候，我想起了上苍
当我迷失的时候，我才知道自己是谁
当我一文不名的时候，我学会了要成为一名富翁这些事情似乎很严肃，然而……
circles.Youareresponsibleforboth."
ThatwasthefirsttimeIrealizedthateachpersoncreatestheinnerpeaceordiscordthatflowsoutintotheworld.Wecannotcreateworldpeaceifweareriddledwithinnerconflict,hatred,doubt,oranger.
Weradiatethefeelingsandthoughtsthatweholdinside,whetherwespeakthemornot.Whateverissplashingaroundinsideofusisspillingoutintotheworld,creatingbeautyordiscordwithallothercirclesoflife.
这是苏语系印第安人部落中流传的一个古老的故事……在我七岁那年，我的祖父来到田边的一个池塘。他让我丢一颗石子到水中，并嘱咐我仔细观察石子所激起的水波纹。然后他叫我把自己想象成那颗石子。
他说：“在生命的水面上，你也许能激起许多波纹，而你所激起的波纹也会打破别人的平静，”
爱是一条双行道LoveIsATwo-WayStreet
Afathersatathisdeskporingoverhismonthlybillswhenhisyoungsonrushedinandannounced,
"Dad,becausethisisyourbirthdayandyou're55yearsold,I’mgoingtogiveyou55kisses,oneforeachyear!"Whentheboystartedmakinggoodonhisword,thefatherexclaimed,"Oh,Andrew,don'tdoitnow,I’mtoobusy!"
Theyoungsterimmediatelyfellsilentastearswelledupinhisbigblueeyes.Apologicallythefathersaid,"Youcanfinishlater."
Theboysaidnothingbutquietlywalkedaway,disappointmentwrittenoverhisface.Thateveningthefathersaid,"Comeandfinishthekissesnow,Andrew!"Buttheboydidn‘trespond.
Unfortunately,afewdayslaterafterthisincident,theboyhadanaccidentandwasdrowned.Hisheartbrokenfatherwrote……
"IfonlyIcouldtellhimhowmuchIregretmythoughtlesswords,andcouldbeassuredthatheknowshowmuchmyheartisaching."
…Loveisatwo-waystreet.Anylovingactmustbewarmlyacceptedoritwillbetakenasrejectionandcanleaveascar.Ifwearetoobusytogiveandreceivelove,wearetoobusy!Nothingismoreimportantthanrespondingwithlovetothecryforlovefromthosewhoarenearandprecioustous.Because……theremaybenochanceatallasinthecaseofthelittleboy……
喜欢和爱的差别
Infrontofthepersonyoulove,youheartbeatsfaster.
Youcannotlookstraightintotheeyesoftheoneyoulove.
Butyoucanalwayssmileintotheeyesoftheoneyoulike.
Whentheoneyouloveiscrying,youcrywithhim.Butwhentheoneyoulikeiscrying,youendupcomforting.
Thefeelingoflovestartsfromtheeyes,butthefeelingoflikestartsfromtheear.
Soifyoustoplikingapersonyouusedtolike,allyouneedtodoiscoveryouears.
Butifyoutrytocloseyoureyes,loveturnsintoadropoftearandremindsinyourheartforever……
谈谈幸福的本质
IliveinHollywood.Youmaythinkpeopleinsucha
glamorous,fun-filledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso,youhavesomemistakenideasaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Manyintelligentpeoplestillequatehappinesswithfun.Thetruthisthatfunandhappinesshavelittleornothingincommon.Funiswhatweexperienceduringanact.Happinessiswhatweexperienceafteranact.Itisadeeper,moreabidingemotion.
Goingtoanamusementparkorballgame,watchingamovieortelevision,arefunactivitiesthathelpusrelax,temporarilyforgetourproblemsandmaybeevenlaugh.Buttheydonotbringhappiness,becausetheirpositiveeffectsendwhenthefunends.
IhaveoftenthoughtthatifHollywoodstarshavearoletoplay,itistoteachusthathappinesshasnothingtodowithfun.Theserich,beautifulindividualshaveconstantaccesstoglamorousparties,fancycars,expensivehomes,everythingthatspells"happiness".
glamorous,fun-filledplacearehappierthanothers.Ifso,youhavesomemistakenideasaboutthenatureofhappiness.
Manyintelligentpeoplestillequatehappinesswithfun.Thetruthisthatfunandhappinesshavelittleornothingincommon.Funiswhatweexperienceduringanact.Happinessiswhatweexperienceafteranact.Itisadeeper,moreabidingemotion.
Goingtoanamusementparkorballgame,watchingamovieortelevision,arefunactivitiesthathelpusrelax,temporarilyforgetourproblemsandmaybeevenlaugh.Buttheydonotbringhappiness,becausetheirpositiveeffectsendwhenthefunends.
IhaveoftenthoughtthatifHollywoodstarshavearoletoplay,itistoteachusthathappinesshasnothingtodowithfun.Theserich,beautifulindividualshaveconstantaccesstoglamorousparties,fancycars,expensivehomes,everythingthatspells"happiness".
Butinmemoiraftermemoir,celebritiesrevealtheunhappinesshiddenbeneathalltheirfun:depression,alcoholism,drugaddiction,brokenmarriages,troubledchildren,profoundloneliness.
Thewaypeopleclingtothebeliefthatafun-filled,pain-free
their
Iffunlifechancesandequatesofhappinessactuallyrealwithdiminisheshappiness.everareattainingequatedpleasure
happiness,thenpainmustbeequatedwithunhappiness.But,infact,theoppositeistrue:Moretimesthannot,thingsthatleadtohappinessinvolvesomepain.
Asaresult,manypeopleavoidtheveryendeavorsthatarethesourceoftruehappiness.Theyfearthepaininevitablybroughtbysuchthingsasmarriage,raisingchildren,professionalachievement,religiouscommitment,
improvement.civicorcharitablework,andself-
世界上最遥远的距离
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotbetweenlifeanddeath
不是生与死
ButwhenIstandinfrontofyou
而是我就站在你面前
Yetyoudon'tknowthatIloveyou
你却不知道我爱你
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
IsnotwhenIstandinfrontofyou
不是我就站在你面前
Yetyoucan'tseemylove
你却不知道我爱你
Butwhenundoubtedlyknowingthelovefromboth而是明明知道彼此相爱
Yetcannotbetogether
却不能在一起
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotbeingapartwhilebeinginlove不是明明知道彼此相爱却不能在一起
Butwhenpainlycannotresisttheyearning
而是明明无法抵挡这股思念
Yetpretendingyouhaveneverbeeninmyheart却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
Thefurthestdistanceintheworld
世界上最遥远的距离
Isnotwhenpainlycannotresisttheyearning不是明明无法抵挡这股思念
yetpretendingyouhaveneverbeeninmyheart却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里
butusingone'sindifferentheart
而是用自己冷漠的心对爱你的人
Todiganuncrossableriver
掘了一条无法跨越的沟渠
Fortheonewholovesyou
婚姻是什么样子的
Ithinkthatweshouldallhavetwolives.Onetolivetomakemistakesandthenonetocomebackanddoitagain.Youknowsoyoudon'tmakemistakes.Imeanbecauseparentswillnottellyouthings－nobodyevertellsyou.Parentsdon'twanttositdownandreally
1)garbandsay:wellnowthisiswhatthisisaboutandthisiswhywearedoingthisandthis－Noit'sabigsecret!
WhenIgotmarriedIsaidtomyfather,“I'mgoingtogetmarried,canyouhelpme?”Hesaidno.Iwenttomymother,Isaid“I’mgoingtogetmarried,Ma,tellmesomethingaboutit.”Shesaid,“Oh,that'swonderful.YourfatherandIhaveneverargued,andhe'sjustbeenwonderfulallthroughlife.”Whichisalie!Lie!Iheardhiminthere,and,“I'llnowtell
youanotherthingI'lltakeyourarmand2)ripitoffandrararara……”
Andnowinmymarriage,mywifeandIloveeachotherbutIwilltellyou3)inaminutewe'vehadsomearguments!ImeanI'venever4)punchedherandshe'sneverpunchedmebutwe'vehadsomearguments,I'vecalledhersomenamesthatIwasproudIeventhoughtof.Andmywifehas5)runsomeofonmethatI'vewrittendown,yeah,butnobodywilltellyouthat.Theonlypersonwhoevermadeanattemptwasapriest.Thinkaboutthat.Apriest!Said,“I'lltellyouaboutit,”Ibegyourpardon.
Marriage,youcan'tbeatit.Thefirstdaywegotmarried,bothofusscaredandeverything,therewegotmarriedandwewenttoourhotelroomforourhoneymoonandjuststaredateachother－justsatthereontheedgeofthebedwithourclothesonlookingateachother.Thenfinallywegotinthecarandwenttothe
6)drive-inandthenweknewwhattodo.
我们正在学习什么？
Ilearnedtoalughinsidemytears,
Ilearnedtobehumaninmymostwretchedyears……IlearnedtofeelwhenIwasn'tbeingtouched,IlearnedtogivewhenIdidn'thavemuch.
IlearnedtobewarmwhenIwascold……
Livingrealhumbly,Iearingtobebold.
IlearnedtolivewhenIthoughtitbettertodie……
IlearnedtolaughwhenallIcoulddowascry.Ilearnedfrombelowwhatit'slikeupabove……WhileIwashated,Ilearnedhowtolove……
ItwasonthemovethatIlearnedhowtorest,
Whileatmyworst,Ilearnedmybest.
IlearnedaboutGod,whenitseemedIwasdamned……ItiswhenIwaslostthatIlearnedthatIam.IlearnedtoberichwhenIhadnomoney……Thesetingsseemsoserious,buthey……
Isn'tlifefunny!?
————————————————————————————————————
在泪水中我学会了欢笑
在最悲惨的岁月里，我学会了有血有肉
当没有什么值得感动的时候，我学会了去感受
当并不富足时，我学会了给予
当寒冷的时候，我学会了怎样得到温暖
在真正卑微地活着，我学会了无畏
当生不如死的时候，我学会了生存
当唯一能做的事就是哭泣时，我会了欢笑当一切都高高在上时，我学会了向卑微学习当我被憎恶时，我学会怎样去爱
在颠沛流离时，我学会怎样放松
当处于最糟糕的境况时，我学会了憧憬最美好的事物当似乎就要完蛋的时候，我想起了上苍
当我迷失的时候，我才知道自己是谁
当我一文不名的时候，我学会了要成为一名富翁这些事情似乎很严肃，然而……
circles.Youareresponsibleforboth."
ThatwasthefirsttimeIrealizedthateachpersoncreatestheinnerpeaceordiscordthatflowsoutintotheworld.Wecannotcreateworldpeaceifweareriddledwithinnerconflict,hatred,doubt,oranger.
Weradiatethefeelingsandthoughtsthatweholdinside,whetherwespeakthemornot.Whateverissplashingaroundinsideofusisspillingoutintotheworld,creatingbeautyordiscordwithallothercirclesoflife.
这是苏语系印第安人部落中流传的一个古老的故事……在我七岁那年，我的祖父来到田边的一个池塘。他让我丢一颗石子到水中，并嘱咐我仔细观察石子所激起的水波纹。然后他叫我把自己想象成那颗石子。
他说：“在生命的水面上，你也许能激起许多波纹，而你所激起的波纹也会打破别人的平静，”